There are plenty of men out there who prefer dating older women, and have friends that can’t understand why. Older women do not look as young as women, their age, and their friends are well aware of it. What these friends don’t know is that there are several benefits of dating an older woman.
No Games
Most younger women enjoy playing games in relationships. They play hard to get, they try to make their boyfriends jealous, and they enjoy the drama that comes from picking a fight for no reason. Most men do not enjoy the drama or the games. Older women do not play games. If they did play games in the past, they now realize that games are stupid and pointless. Older women say exactly what they think and have no reason to pick fights. While your friends are dealing with their young girlfriend’s games and drama, you can sit back and just enjoy your relationship.
Success and Money
Most older women have successful careers and their own money. This is good for you because she will not be dependent on you for your money. Chances are that she will end up paying on occasion on date night. While your friends are spending their entire paycheck on their girlfriends, yours could be treating you to an expensive dinner.
No Hang-Ups About Her Body
Most younger women have not reached the level where they are comfortable in their own skin. They may want to have sex with the lights off so that you can see the tiny bit of cellulite they have on their thighs. When it comes to eating out, they will order the small side salad, rather than a full meal. Older women are the opposite. Most older women are past the self conscious stage, and have a what you see is what you get attitude. While your friends are listening to their girlfriends complain about the size of their waist and asking them over and over again if their butt looks fat, you can enjoy your time with your confident girlfriend.
Emotional Independence
Most older women are not looking for someone to be her everything. Older women already have their own friends, routines, and hobbies. She will not want to spend every second of her day with you. This will give you a chance to do your own thing with your friends. While your girlfriend is out with her friends, your friends will not be able to hang out because they will be too busy with their needy, clingy girlfriends.
Life Experience
Older women usually have lived much more than you have. They have been through more and they know more. This life experience can be beneficial for you. If you are going through something she will listen and can give you advice that you may not be able to get from your friends. While you are getting insight and advice from your girlfriends, your friends are trying to get their young girlfriends to listen to what they are saying.
Goals
Most older women have goals. They may have met some of these goals, and are working toward meeting the next. When you have a girlfriend who is goal oriented, you can be sure that she is responsible. While your friends are listening to their young girlfriends talk about their goal to achieve the perfect tan this summer, you will be supporting your girlfriend in her goal to purchase a summer home.
Many men enjoy dating younger women because of their lovely faces and hot, young bodies. Other men date older women because they are independent, respectable, and full of substance. The next time your friends ask why you are dating an older woman rather than a hot looking young woman, you should go over all of the benefits with them. Chances are, your friends will start dating older women as well.
